Single Girl’s Guide: Valentine’s Day

Feb 8, 2013
Jessica Wilson

Valentine’s Day is less than a week away and some of us are not looking forward to spending “Single’s Awareness Day” alone. But as we always say, “it is what you make it.” So turn that frown upside-down and spoil yourself silly with these festive activities.

Do Some Retail Therapy

What better way to spend a “single” Valentine’s Day than by spending a little dough. Put that hard-earned money to good use by investing in a pair of sky-high stilettos or this season’s must-have bag. Look at it this way: You’ll probably enjoy these gifts better than something your counterpart would have picked out anyway.

Throw an Anti-Valentine’s Day Party

Not feeling the love this year? Wallow in your singlehood by inviting your anti-Valentine’s Day friends over for the ultimate night in. Pig out, drink “Single-tinis,” gossip and remember that being single can also be fabulous. At least if you keep telling yourself that, you may eventually believe it.

Pamper Yourself at a Spa

Don’t waste any time thinking, “woe is me” this Valentine’s Day. Instead, head to the nearest spa for some much needed rest and relaxation. Indulge in a Swedish massage and a facial for a glowing complexion. While you’re at it, why not throw in a mani/pedi? You’ll leave feeling rejuvenated, without a care in the world.

Have a “Sex and the City” Marathon

As Carrie Bradshaw once said, “Some people are settling down, some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies.” Just because you haven’t found that person that gives you butterflies doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world. Take a night to yourself with a bottle of wine, a pint of ice cream and the ladies of “Sex and the City.“ Because who needs men with great friends and a fabulous wardrobe?

Girl’s Night Out

Get dolled up, put on a sexy dress and paint the town red with your unattached besties. Go to your local hot spot for some tapas and martinis and hit the bars after to dance the night away. Enjoy your single freedom while you have it! The best part: You can almost guarantee the other guys that are out are single too.

Join a Dating Site

Broaden your horizons this year and finally join that dating site you’ve been talking to all your friends about! Yes, you’re single this Valentine’s Day, but there’s no reason you can’t start prepping for 2014. Make a pact with yourself to start taking matters into your own hands and start your search for Mr. Right.

Go on a Date With Your Best Guy Friend

Enjoy (almost) all the benefits of having a significant other on Valentine’s Day by going on a date with one of your best guy friends. Have him pick you up and maybe hint at a bouquet of roses or chocolates so it feels authentic. You can still enjoy the Valentine’s day specials and hit the bars without anyone knowing the difference.